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            Problem 6

                        He cheated on me

My Problem


After 14 years of marriage my husband told me he cheated on me. I met the other woman and let him work with her. Since 
then he has stopped working with her to prove to me he is truly sorry and that he loves me. We have two children. Am I doing the right thing trying to work it out?



Our Reply
  You have shown a commitment to your relationship in trying to work things out. So, too, has your partner in trying to prove that he really loves you. Yet it seems you are still hurting, possibly you do not trust your partner. Perhaps, also, your partner is also hurting inside because of this event. Possibly, he wishes the relationship to be back as it was. Communication is the key here. Try telling your partner how you feel, let him tell you how he feels. Tell him a way to prove he still loves you. Accept what he says and does.