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Your problem
seems to be that you feel your boyfriend is not physically attracted
to you anymore and that he is masturbating and finding images of other
women more attractive.
It may also be
that while he finds porn images sexually exciting, he is also ashamed
of it.
For many guys,
sex and emotions are separate. When he masturbates to porn images, he
has no feelings for the girl(s) he is observing. It is simply sexual.
For you, he has feelings. While he may wish to indulge in sexual
fantasies with you, he is worried that he may feel he is degrading you
and seeing you in the same way he sees a porn star.
It may also be
that he is 'turned on' by particular types of sexual activities.
Activities he might not even suggest to you for fear of offending you.
You seem to be
more open than he believes you are; in that you say that you are
prepared to satisfy him sexually. You need to show him again that you
may be prepared to indulge his fantasies. Perhaps share a porn movie
and mutual masturbation. Then, over time, show him that he no longer
has need of porn.
Unless, of
course, you discover that his fantasies are too gross for you. In
which case, it is better to know this and, if you so feel, end your
relationship.
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