Boyfriends : I really liked another boy

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I'm jealous of my boyfriend's girl friend!

I have been going out with my boyfriend for 7 months now but even when we started going out I really liked another boy.

The other boy really liked me too but we decided to leave it be. But now I'm so in love with him and never stop thinking of him! I don't know how to tell him and I don't know if he still likes me!

I want to dump my boyfriend for him but the other boy's 'on and off' girlfriend bullies me and I don't know what to do!!
Please Help me!

Our reply

Sorry to say, this does not sound like love, more like an infatuation or a desire to have what might have been.

First of all, you need to sort out what you want to do with you boyfriend. If you really don't want to stay with him, then it's time to dump him. After all, you are already being unfaithful to him (at least in your mind) by desiring the other guy. So do the fair thing by him and end this relationship.

As for the other guy, you say you do not know if he still likes you. Well, you have to find a way to ask him. Do you really feel, though, that he will leave his present girlfriend for you? Their relationship may be 'on and off' but there still seems to be some attraction between them!

Learn more about men, why they do or don't do things. Read this book, 'Men Made Easy' or if you want to know even more about men, then you should get the book '500 Secrets about Men'

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